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It's been an interesting year so far. I've lost both my Moms. My mother died in January after a long decline. Soon after, my Mother-in-Law went in for bypass surgery. While her heart healed, other issues zapped her strength and she died April 22.

I may have challenge update posts but I don't know when I'll be posting regularly or when I'll get to visit everyone who is working on the challenges I'm hosting.

Thursday, December 3, 2009

A Note from the Author

I am a participant in the Thomas Nelson Book Blogger Program and one of the books I received was The Noticer by Andy Andrews. I loved it so much, I purchased one for a friend, one to pass around and The Traveler's Gift. I went to Mr. Andrews' website looking for some about-the-author type info and found a blog post that I want (and can) share with you.

Mr. Andrews lives with his family in Alabama and while they are not ON the beach they are close. This comes directly from his blog and while it gives us vital info for when you make it to the beach, it also translates into something we can use everyday.

What You Don't Know CAN Hurt You!
Wednesday, September 23, 2009

Last week, two people drowned on Perdido Key.

Our house is not on the beach, but we do live near it and every time something tragic happens in or around our coastal community, the news spreads quickly. Unfortunately, drownings are a fairly common occurrence anywhere tourists and saltwater meet. In fact, on the same day two people from out-of-state lost their lives, eleven more were rescued by lifeguards.

Why did this happen? Why such a large number of incidences at one time? The locals knew why . . .

Riptide.


It is a scary word. It is an even scarier situation IF you don’t know what’s happening when you get caught in one.

On the way to school this morning with my two boys, we had the conversation most parents around here have several times a year with their kids.

"Do you know what a riptide is? Do you know what to do when (notice we don’t say if) you get caught in one? Do we let a riptide scare us? Have you practiced making yourself relax?"

You see, a riptide is only dangerous if you don’t understand what is happening. That is why local parents make sure that their children (who are always at the beach and occasionally without their own parents) understand the danger.

There is a difference between “knowing a thing is dangerous” and “understanding the danger”. When we understand a particular danger, we can often nullify its consequences.

For instance, many people think a riptide will “sweep you out to sea”. Actually, a riptide is a cross current that runs parallel to the beach for a relatively short distance. While a riptide may be extremely strong and impossible to swim against, it can be safely maneuvered if one understands a riptide.

Even inexperienced swimmers can dogpaddle or tread water in some way. When caught in a riptide... RELAX. Don’t panic or try to swim to shore against the current. You can’t. This is the mistake most drowning victims have made. Though they might have been excellent swimmers (and they often are), they did not possess the knowledge and understanding that if they relax and swim with the current, the riptide will either deposit them on the sand (down the beach a ways) ... or cease to flow entirely, making it easy to swim to shore.

In the conversation I had with my boys about the tragedies of last week, I took the opportunity once again to go through local riptide mantra.

When you feel the strong current,
you know what to do.


Relax.

Tread water.

Relax.

Breath deeply.

Relax.

Don’t panic.

It will all be over very soon.

There is no reason be scared.

All this having been said, this information is for the first person that gets caught in a riptide. Why is that? Because if someone has been in a riptide that day, this means there are riptides in the water.

And if there are riptides in the water . . . we don’t go in the water!

I know this might seem overly simple to you, but for years, I have been trying desperately to gather wisdom for all parts of my life. Having gathered at least a small amount, I endeavor to dispense it in palatable form to readers and audiences around the world. And there is one thing I have become very sure of:

What you don’t know . . . CAN hurt you!

The second decision in Mastering the Seven Decisions and The Traveler’s Gift is: I Will Seek Wisdom. Incredibly, I have paid more attention to the word “wisdom” over the years than I have to the most important part of the principle . . . the word “seek”.

In short, our success in everything we do (and sometimes our very lives) hang in the balance between what we know and what we don’t know. Your financial success will be largely achieved by what you know, but in turn, your financial life can be devastated by what you don’t know. Our children’s lives will be happy and productive and safe according to what they know . . . or don’t know.

Therefore, I propose that you and I lead lives of permanent purpose. Knowing that your family and career is of the highest importance to you, I strongly suggest that we pay very close attention to what we read or watch and the things to which we listen.

At every moment, we are gaining knowledge and wisdom that can make the difference in our lives . . . or we are reading, watching, and listening to things that (in the long term) mean absolutely nothing.

Question: What small period of your day will you begin to use in a more purposeful manner? How? Thanks in advance for your answer. It will direct and inspire us all.

Your friend,

Andy


© 2009, Andy Andrews. Used by Permission. Originally posted at andyandrews.com/blog.

2 comments:

Juju at Tales of Whimsy.com said...

Interesting pick. Thanks for bringing something new to my attention.

Alice Teh said...

That's a great question. I need to put some thoughts to it...

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